More on Decorating by Feel

Today I’d like to continue that discussion about decorating by feel that I started a few months ago. I’m drawn more and more to rooms for their feel more than how they look. Many of you got what I was talking about the last time and had some really great insight.

Here are two more rooms that have a wonderful air of creativity and history about them. Of course, the individual pieces and features of these rooms are gorgeous on their own, but it’s the effect they have together and the special ambiance they create that make them so appealing to me. How do they feel to you? I’d love to hear.

If you missed my first post on this topic, you can find it here.

(Photos: 1.via Delight by Design 2.William Waldron)

33 comments

  1. Jessie

    That is a neat way of looking at decorating. That is probably why all your rooms always look so great! My apartment just looks like cute and pink collided!!! It does make me feel like home surrounding myself with pink and things I collect. It is fitting for me right now. My next place will be more grown up! ;)

    I believe you should always decorate with things that make you “feel” at home and happy, not always just following trends and what is popular at the time.
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  2. a little luxe

    I love rooms with a sense of history. They feel like life…. not staged. Tells a story to me. I have grown up in a family of art collectors and vintage pieces so rooms like these feel like home to me. Love that first shot and the color of the walls. Gorgeous!

    Jennifer
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  3. Paula @ Mabel&Violet

    For me, this is the only way to decorate. I find that I am only drawn to old buildings with a sense of history and faded grandeur so both of these images definitely appeal. I love the personal collections of art and objets d’art in each room. To me that’s what decorating is all about, filling your home with the things that you love and that stimulate your senses visually and in other ways, such as evoking memories. Lovely post Ally.

  4. Leah Moss

    I love the moody feel of these rooms. They’re old and interesting, and you can almost smell them (in a good way!). I love the combination of the weathered wood floorboards, gilt frames, and worn rug in the second picture. I can just imagine someone lounging on the chaise and scribbling out a poem
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  5. mb

    Rooms that have history and texture draw me in. The feel of the room tells me a little bit about the person who lives there.
    Layers of real life…

    mb from Dallas

  6. Lissa@AfterAdornment

    I agree. These rooms feel cozy and like they have been that way for awhile. Great places to relax and read.
    I also love to gain inspiration from how a room feels to me…that’s usually how I start a project and always ask a client how they want the room to feel.
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  7. Solange

    I love this post because, for me, that is what decorating should be all about. Creating spaces that are about you, that reflect your journey, where you’ve been, what you’ve collected, treasures from your family,things you’ve splurged on, things you picked up for nothing. Those are the spaces that feel truly beautiful and comfortable – no matter what is in them. We seem to have lost that sense in life – we want a ‘designed’ look that then has no personality; it may look good but has no soul. Love these rooms!

  8. Space by Eliana Tomas

    i truly believe spaces should be an amalgam of inherited objects with stories to tell and contemporary objects. If we do understand who we are and what we want to achieve with/through that space, we are decorating with “feel” and not “look”. we’ll achieve the authenticy these ones you post here today, no matter the style represented (modern, shabby-chic, traditional, minimalist, etc).
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  9. Townhouselady

    Wow. FINALLY someone gets it.

    I can’t be the only one who was getting bored with decor that looked like someone went out and just bought stuff to fill a space with whatever the “it” things were.

    I like decor that has layers and evolves into something that makes you walk in and feel something, anything, other than “this formula of strategically place objects came straight out the box”. Frankly, I don’t even much care if I dislike certain items as long as they feel like they’re adding to the room’s story.

    Thank you so much for this!
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  10. Gina

    This is how I have always felt about interiors. When I see a space I love, I know I love it because of how it makes me feel. There are a lot of spaces I like, but some make my heart race and make me just want to be there – that’s when I know I love the space. I try to decorate my home in the same way, if possible :) .
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  11. manya

    Love the room with the stairwell. It is truly inspiring and I do understand what you mean about feel vs how it looks. I agree. I think the French have a great sense of that.

  12. Ally

    What a great discussion! Thanks so much for weighing in everybody.

    Jessie: That is very sweet of you to say. I think if your surroundings make you happy then that is the most important thing.

    a little luxe: Exactly – they don’t feel staged – although they probably were for the photos! :D

    angela: I’m trying hard to loosen up more too. It ain’t easy! :)

    Solange: You hit the nail on the head. So many spaces lack soul.

    Eliana: That is a really good point. It doesn’t matter what “style” a room is when we’re talking about authenticity.

    Townhouselady: I’m with you. Spaces like that are not only boring, they’re a little sad.

  13. Chedva

    I was waiting for someone to say just that! I actually seem to talk about this a lot with people, both design pros and not, and often i don’t feel understood.
    I think rooms like these need time to evolve, they can’t be “made over” in a jiffy- and this kind of a room, that seems to have acquired a personality of its own over time- is the kind that most appeals to me.
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  14. Natasha

    I completely agree with you. The ambiance of a room, the history and story it tells is what strikes at the heartstrings. If I walk into a room, no matter the colour or decoration category, and it feels right? That’s decorating by feel to me.

  15. Splendid Willow

    Amen!

    The older (or wiser?) I get the more I detest contrived rooms. Rooms need to be personal and relaxed. We are talking about your home! Forget trends! Be alert and current but be true to yourself and give your home a good vibe.

    Hugs to you,

    Mon

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